How do you know for sure when you get the shaft from an internet dating girl?
Allow me to quickly recap the events in quick, convenient bullet points:
- I write her an initial email
- She actually writes a nice email back
- I write her.
- She writes back:
"Hey So@24,
Wanted to let you know that I got your e-mail and intend to write back--been swamped the last couple days! I'll write more as soon as i can.
Take care
Mel" - I write back:
"Hey no problem, I'm sure it's hectic with midterms coming up. Get back to me when things calm down."
- That was 9 days ago.
Did I just get fucking eServed?
So now what? Do I wait longer? I feel that 9 days is a long time. I'm not being overly sensitive to this, am I?
Do I email back a follow up? A friendly reminder of, "Hey remember me?? The one you were pretty chummy with?"
Do I just let her go to wander off into the wilderness like an old house cat searching for a place to die?
I also know myself and it'll drive me crazy if I don't figure out, "Why the french dip did I get the eBoot??"
If I hear another girl make the complaint, "Guys are the ones who always say they are going to call and they don't!"; a kidney punch may be in order.