Girls sleeping over and staying in the bed of a male that is someone who is not a significant other.*
This isn't something that I'm particularly used to (not a surprise that a long term girlfriend would frown upon me doing this when we dated), but after Jenny stayed over... I conjured up a theory. As I often tend to do.
My theory is: girls shacking methods might be correlated with their personalities.
And since I really only have two girls as my case studies, they will have to do in order to explain my train of thought.
Shacking Habits:
- passed out in her dress on New Years
- will often grab a t-shirt from my drawer on her own
- sleeps in my t-shirt and undies
- passes out
- since I only have one pillow, we share it
Personality Traits:
- Disorganized, frantic in stressful situations
- spontaneous/sporadic
- go-with-the-flow attitude
- Ideal Evening = Rusty Nails followed by grilled cheese sandwiches and reruns of Strangers with Candy and/or cartoons
- has been known to chase Monarch vodka w/ Grey Goose
Jenny
Shacking Habits:
Personality Traits:
Shacking Habits:
- Asked me to provide shorts and a t-shirt
- Requested an additional pillow (Thanks Leo!)
- falls asleep
- Ideal Evening = dancing and reruns of Sex & the City and/or Friends
- fell asleep in a very casual, proper manner (if that makes sense)
Personality Traits:
- Extremely organized
- likes to have events/gatherings planned out in advance
- focused, goal driven
- enjoys a good wine
Again, just a theory. Not sure how credible it is, but it was two examples that are very different when provided with the same scenario.
* good catch, Commenter!
